I have been reading several articles over the past week here on Medium, and the general focus of these articles was sex. The specific focus of these articles was the female orgasm and I have encountered a recurring theme in them that I find bothersome. By now, everyone should know…

After reading Dry Humping: The Good, the Bad and the Ridiculous, written by Gavin Jenkins for MEL, I decided that I wanted to chime in on the topic. Let’s begin by saying that whoever is cosmically in charge of giving names to sexual acts should be fired and exiled to…

For years, I understood the undercover battle of light-skinned black folks versus dark skin black folks. I knew it existed; had seen it, heard it and even indulged in it, but never knew it had a name; not until recently. Colorism — prejudice or bias against persons on the basis of their skin color or complexion, often among persons of the same racial identification. Merriam Webster doesn’t even have…

As children, most people can’t wait to grow up because they think they can do whatever they want to do and will not have to listen to anybody. Unfortunately, as adults, there are many things that you have no choice about. If you want to have a roof over your…

Show me the evidence, if you can prove otherwise. If you follow me at all, then you know that I like to post well-thought-out articles and thoughtful responses when I receive feedback. But sometimes, that isn’t always easy, especially when dealing with someone who presents as a bad faith actor. …

I just read an article entitled “4 Reasons the Plus-Sized‘ Body Positivity” Movement is Killing Women” by Jess. In this article, Jess explains from her point of view how the body positivity movement is rather suicidal. She talks about all of the drawbacks that she experienced living in a plus-sized…