Pleasure From Penetration: The Issue is Deeper Than You Think

I was reading an article called “Why Should A Hetero Orgasm Be All About The P In V?” written by Shannon Ashley. Excellent article by the way. I urge everyone to read it.

Based on her anecdotal evidence, she has a great point. Why must heterosexual sex be all about insertion of the penis into the vagina? And the obvious answer is that it shouldn’t be, but why is it the focus? Why is it the end all be all for sex?

I have the answer. That’s because unfortunately and historically for men the goal is…